Sometimes we wonder why God does not just immediately remove the narcissist from our lives the first time they hurt us. Why do we have to go through years of this cycle? Because if the narcissist just disappeared, you would spend the rest of your life romanticizing them. You would spend years crying over the potential of who they could have been. You would believe the illusion that they were your soulmate.
So God does not just remove the person. He removes the illusion first. He leaves them in your life just long enough for you to see exactly what they really are. He lets you see with crystal clarity that they never loved you the way you loved them. He lets you realize that they only used your endless forgiveness as a license to abuse you without consequences.
And once that beautiful fake illusion completely dies, the trauma bond starts dying right along with it. That is the exact moment you get your power back. That is when you stop begging them to see your worth. You stop explaining your feelings to a brick wall. You stop chasing them down the hallway.
And most importantly, you stop handing your precious divine soul back to someone who has already proven time and time again that they cannot protect it. God—the higher self—allows the relationship to break so that you do not break. He allows the pain to get bad enough that you finally decide you are worth more than the crumbs you have been accepting.
If you are listening to this right now and you feel that heavy restlessness in your chest, if you feel like you’re looking at a stranger, do not—
Not feel guilty. Do not let religion or society tell you that you need to stay and keep forgiving someone who is slowly destroying your spirit.
Your lack of peace is your answer. Your apathy is your permission to leave. You have done everything you could. You loved them. You forgave them and you tried to save them. Now, it is time to save yourself.
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