We are taught to forgive. We are told that holding on to anger is bad for us, and that giving someone a second, a third, or a 15th chance is the right moral thing to do. So you do it. You wipe the slate clean. You accept their half-hearted apologies. You swallow your pain and you tell them it is okay. “I forgive you.”
But deep down, nothing changes. The abuse continues, and unconsciously you betray yourself. A part of you dies every single time you forgive without them having felt true remorse for what they’ve done. And when you refuse to set a boundary to protect yourself—when you refuse to say, “I’m done with you. I won’t think about forgiving you. I’ll just focus on becoming indifferent”—a higher power has to step in to do it for you. That’s why let’s focus on number one.
God, the universe, the higher self will completely stop giving you peace with that person.
If you keep forgiving the narc again and again, you will notice that the comfort you used to feel around them slowly disappears. It is the disruption of your new normal. You used to crave their presence. You used to want them sitting next to you on the couch. But now God starts removing peace from that connection.
You will sit with them in the same room and suddenly feel an overwhelming sense of restlessness. You will hear their voice even if they’re just talking about the weather or what is for dinner. And your nervous system will spike. You will feel in your gut that something is fundamentally wrong.
You will try to convince yourself to stay calm. You will say maybe maybe they have changed. They’re being nice today. “We had a good weekend.” But your body will absolutely refuse to accept it anymore. This is not you going crazy. This is divine protection.
God sometimes protects you by making the wrong person feel entirely unbearable. The same person you once cried for, the person you used to beg to spend time with, will start feeling heavy, dirty, and unsafe to you. You will feel a strong magnetic repulsion toward them.
Your spirit recognizes the danger long before your logical mind is ready to catch up. It will accept it, and God uses that physical discomfort as an alarm bell you cannot ignore.
Number two: God, the universe, the higher self will expose their real face again and again.
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