Number four: if they don’t find any new source of supply—or if it becomes too tiring to keep doing that—they will seek their old sources of supply.
They reach out to their exes, especially the ones they may still be trauma-bonded to. They call them. They ring them up. They message them and cry “wolf.”
Can you come over? Something happened. It didn’t go the way they planned. And then you can already guess how it ends.
If it’s a male narcissist, I can guarantee you he often runs to his mother—his ultimate enabler. His “real wife,” I should say. It sounds nauseating, but that’s what it is like with a male narcissist.
And his mother adorrrrrs him—puts him on a pedestal and babies him. You know: comforts him, nurtures him, as if he’s this two-year-old spoiled rotten kid in an adult’s body.
They stoop extremely low to gather supply.
They may even go out with a random stranger they don’t know, with zero interest in getting to know them—just to get supply, attention, and the ability to tell stories about their greatness or their victimhood.
If it’s a covert vulnerable narcissist, it’s pathetic—rotten, shallow, and fake. The way they live shows they can’t stand themselves for even an hour. They can’t be alone. They have to seek someone—and that someone can be anybody.
Five: They get drunk, use drugs, and visit adult websites
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