They start going through your stuff—disgusting behavior. They break all the rules and breach your privacy by searching your private journals.
They want to know what you’re all about. What are you writing? How are you feeling? Then they can use that information to weaponize against you and further abuse you.
If they’re still stealing, they may take away your money, steal jewelry, or destroy your makeup. If you’re a woman married or in a relationship with a male narcissist, they might even destroy your clothes—they tear them apart, cut them, and then leave you to come back to the chaos and mess.
Later, when you confront them, they gaslight you. They say, “Oh, you’re making things up. It was like that already. You never had that kind of money.” They lie and deny everything.
Going through your stuff is not only about stealing—it’s also about instilling fear. It makes you feel extremely vulnerable and unsafe in your own space, so you stay in a terrorized state and they can abuse you more easily.
For example: if they go through your computer, your phone, your diaries, or your text messages, of course you’re going to become paranoid. You’re going to feel hurt. But the problem is you can’t express it with plausible deniability—there’s no proof.
So for the narcissist, it never happened. And they’re very good at lying pathologically. No matter what you say, no matter how much you express your discomfort—because of their stalking activities.
They won’t accept it. They’ll fight you until their last breath. That’s what happened to me.
When my narcissistic roommate stole my money, the moment I was out of the room, my money was gone. I had proof—evidence for that. But nobody listened, and I was painted as the crazy one.
Three: They call your friends and family and talk nonsense about you
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