When you’re seeing these subtle signs that they’re trying to trigger you, at the very least, just know it’s not the happy picture they’re trying to paint.
Now let’s look at a comment. “He’s writing on social media what all he wants to do with the new supply. Haha. Same things we wanted to do together that I had said I wanted to do with him. I think he’s deliberately doing it to trigger me.”
Okay—maybe it doesn’t happen every single time, but it is so incredibly common for a narcissist to flaunt a new relationship. And to do it by doing things that either the other person wanted to do, or things that they often did together.
The tricky thing is that it’s not obvious to people on the outside. But anyone who’s in the know is cringing behind the scenes.
Another thing you might expect from a narcissist after you go no-contact is that they will stalk your social media. Out of nowhere, they might start liking old pictures of you—especially if there were pictures of you with that person.
Now I want to look at two comments that highlighted a theme I wasn’t aware was such a common theme before.
First commenter: “My ex-narcissist husband ghosted me for 4 months and now blocked me everywhere. He was stalking me from fake secret accounts, and I said publicly that I have a new man and I know that my ex was cheating. He saw it from a fake account and my ex-husband blocked me from that fake account. Do you think it’s the final discard?”
So that’s the theme I was seeing. I saw it quite a few times in the comments: after you go no-contact, block them on social media. A narcissist creates a fake account. I knew that was very common, but that they would eventually end up blocking the person from the fake account was an unexpected twist.
So let’s look at the next comment. “Okay, guys, serious question. I broke up with my narc. He blocked me everywhere and he was watching my stories from his fake account for 2 months. He thought I didn’t know, but now he blocked me from his fake account. What on earth does that mean? Please explain this game to me. Is he jealous of my sexy posts, or is he just simply done finally?”
And now instead of answering this one, I’m going to read one of your replies because it’s good.
“From what I personally have seen, how it happened to me: they aren’t through with you until there’s someone else to destroy. When they blocked you from the second account, they found a new girl or a boyfriend. You’ve been replaced. It happens so fast. My ex got married like 3 days after our divorce.”
See, again—it’s a pattern with narcissists. But yes, sometimes a narcissist will just fall off the face of the earth. They could have been in your face the day before, distraught, tears rolling down their face, how they need you back. They so desperately want you.
If you take five minutes to think about it, don’t worry—the weather will change. The next day, you don’t hear from them again. And if you try to reach out to them, it’s too late. They’re over it.
And this just proves that the narcissist does not really care about you. And I’m sorry. I know that is a harsh reality. They care about the supply.
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