It’s nearly impossible to know what a narcissist is doing behind your back, but they’re chronic cheaters. They’ll give hints—but not in a way that screams, something is wrong here. They’ll make you believe you’re insane for “making it up,” or—worst of all—cheating on you by destroying or altering any evidence to the contrary.
So how can you tell if a narcissist is unfaithful to you?
Let’s take this episode to study these indicators. Welcome everyone. I’m going to tell you six telltale signs that your narcissist may be cheating on you, and we’ll go over them in this episode.
1) They strongly disapprove of dishonesty at first
At the beginning of their relationship, they expressed their strong disapproval of dishonesty and blatant deception. The implication is that they are the polar opposite of what they claim to be.
A lot of what they say centers on how much they despise liars. Their ex-partners’ infidelity is a common topic of conversation. You may feel obligated to help them—if you paint yourself as the hero and they as the victim—then they go on and on about it. Soon you’re led to conclude: No, this person is very loyal. No way they would do such an act.
In reality, they’re already plotting ways to manipulate you into giving in to their desires, so that they can cheat on you later. In other words, they want you to believe this person is incapable of making such a decision—due to their “lack of interest.” They’ll never take that road. That’s not what their “faith” teaches them. That’s not how they are.
And saying so insults their character. They’re far too morally upstanding to ever do something so wrong.
You may not realize it, but they’re actually preparing you for the same thing. You can’t keep thinking the same way after encountering them.
Suppose you later find out something you can prove. In that case, they will obviously deny it—because the premise has already been set.
Since I’m not a cheater, I stayed with you. If I were a liar, I wouldn’t be liked, so I wouldn’t be one. So what does this lead to exactly? What you’re saying isn’t true. It’s all in your head, or you’re cheating on me at the moment and putting the blame on me so you can get away with it.
2) They make last-minute plan changes, disappear, and rarely make contact
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