It’s important to understand that narcissists like to feel in control of their environment. They’re constantly on the lookout for signs of a problem. They’re extremely controlling and afraid of any change. As such, they often try to avoid conflict by blaming others for their mistakes.
The fear of being discovered is the primary motivation for narcissists to be abusive and controlling. They try to keep you constantly on high alert, and they try to give the illusion of success by using their manipulation tactics to manipulate and dominate their victims.
However, once you recognize the patterns, making a narcissist fear you becomes easier. After you’ve identified these signs, you can adjust your responses to them. This will improve the quality of your interactions and elevate your communication skills. The narcissist’s anxiety will increase the more you talk to them, which will only increase their anxiety.
Anxiety is a constant, vague feeling that a narcissist carries in both their body and mind. They experience paranoia that makes them think: What if everything they’ve built is gone for nothing? They may show this anxiety by talking about doom or by making you feel anxious. Some narcissists hide their anxiety by denying their feelings.
In short, narcissists constantly live in fear—but many of these fears are hidden or deeply buried.
Number One: Narcissists Tend to See You as a Threat
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